Thursday, March 26, 2009

How To Make Cocao Tablet

The early death of the living will

Tonight I'm a bit upset for a very important fact that has occurred today in our classrooms MPs: I am referring to the approval of DDL on living wills Senate today approved with 150 yes, 123 no and three abstentions. I'm not a lawyer, and it is true that this is a bill, but a couple of key things about this sensitive issue are quite clear to me: If this bill were to become law, would mean that the will of the patient, not to be subjected against their will, medical treatment and health services, if this patient have a stronger voice to express it, it would be practically nothing. This is because, again, there was the cunning against citizens. Beppe Grillo would say, here's that word (in this case but, rather, an excerpt of words) have changed the whole concept. You probably know that already there had been several proposals in Italy come from multiple political parties, to fill the legislative vacuum on the issue living will, on the subject of end of life, and perseverance teraupeutico .


But among the many, one thing must be clear and Cross: If you had to legislate on these issues, and establish by law that the will of the patient (now called the "Dat - Statement by early treatment") had to be mandatory for doctors and health care, that's rather a surprise (but not much), this bill has been carved out this word: in fact, in the first paragraph of Article 4, which, for a change in committee wanted by the majority, stated Statements that early treatment 'are not mandatory, but are binding " was deleted the second part of the statement, implying that the patient has previously received, in full possession of his mental faculties, the so-called informed consent , however, the medical profession to decide, also has the right to act in the opposite direction, if deems appropriate: hence, the patient's wishes are not met.

Recitation so, in fact, Article 4 of the bill:

ART. 4 - (shape and duration of the declaration in advance of treatment).

1. The advance directives are not mandatory treatment . are written in a written document having a specific date and signature del soggetto interessato maggiorenne, in piena capacita' di intendere e di volere dopo una compiuta e puntuale informazione medico clinica, e sono raccolte esclusivamente dal medico di medicina generale che contestualmente le sottoscrive.

(la fonte è sempre questa ). Qui un articolo che spiega tutto bene (certamente meglio di me che non sono una giornalista ^^). Mentre l'altro nodo della questione, che era già stato dibattuto e deciso nella giornata di mercoledì, era quella riguardante idratazione e alimentazione artificiale , che da oggi non si potranno più considerare accanimento terapeutico, bensì un trattamento umano obbligatorio, poiché (sempre citing the DDL) are considered are "forms of life support and physiologically designed to alleviate the suffering until the end of life." and therefore, they "can not be the subject of advance directives for treatment."

you understand, then, the deception? You, State, before you make me believe that you care about my opinion, respecting my wishes on my life and my Pellacchia, giving me the illusion that I need to write that I do not want to be hydrated and fed artificially in the case I find myself in situations like that of irreversible clinical Eluana , such as the persistent vegetative state, but then admit that doctors can do as they please, and especially the nasogastric tube requires me to keep me alive (or non-life, according to myself). So, what really matters to the will of a malt in Italy? And as our country is secular? As time passes, the more I am convinced that the answers to both questions is "very little". In my opinion, today Eluana is dead for the third time, and I have lost hope of having a serious law and democratic about these important issues.

How To Make Cocao Tablet

The early death of the living will

Tonight I'm a bit upset for a very important fact that has occurred today in our classrooms MPs: I am referring to the approval of DDL on living wills Senate today approved with 150 yes, 123 no and three abstentions. I'm not a lawyer, and it is true that this is a bill, but a couple of key things about this sensitive issue are quite clear to me: If this bill were to become law, would mean that the will of the patient, not to be subjected against their will, medical treatment and health services, if this patient have a stronger voice to express it, it would be practically nothing. This is because, again, there was the cunning against citizens. Beppe Grillo would say, here's that word (in this case but, rather, an excerpt of words) have changed the whole concept. You probably know that already there had been several proposals in Italy come from multiple political parties, to fill the legislative vacuum on the issue living will, on the subject of end of life, and perseverance teraupeutico .


But among the many, one thing must be clear and Cross: If you had to legislate on these issues, and establish by law that the will of the patient (now called the "Dat - Statement by early treatment") had to be mandatory for doctors and health care, that's rather a surprise (but not much), this bill has been carved out this word: in fact, in the first paragraph of Article 4, which, for a change in committee wanted by the majority, stated Statements that early treatment 'are not mandatory, but are binding " was deleted the second part of the statement, implying that the patient has previously received, in full possession of his mental faculties, the so-called informed consent , however, the medical profession to decide, also has the right to act in the opposite direction, if deems appropriate: hence, the patient's wishes are not met.

Recitation so, in fact, Article 4 of the bill:

ART. 4 - (shape and duration of the declaration in advance of treatment).

1. The advance directives are not mandatory treatment . are written in a written document having a specific date and signature del soggetto interessato maggiorenne, in piena capacita' di intendere e di volere dopo una compiuta e puntuale informazione medico clinica, e sono raccolte esclusivamente dal medico di medicina generale che contestualmente le sottoscrive.

(la fonte è sempre questa ). Qui un articolo che spiega tutto bene (certamente meglio di me che non sono una giornalista ^^). Mentre l'altro nodo della questione, che era già stato dibattuto e deciso nella giornata di mercoledì, era quella riguardante idratazione e alimentazione artificiale , che da oggi non si potranno più considerare accanimento terapeutico, bensì un trattamento umano obbligatorio, poiché (sempre citing the DDL) are considered are "forms of life support and physiologically designed to alleviate the suffering until the end of life." and therefore, they "can not be the subject of advance directives for treatment."

you understand, then, the deception? You, State, before you make me believe that you care about my opinion, respecting my wishes on my life and my Pellacchia, giving me the illusion that I need to write that I do not want to be hydrated and fed artificially in the case I find myself in situations like that of irreversible clinical Eluana , such as the persistent vegetative state, but then admit that doctors can do as they please, and especially the nasogastric tube requires me to keep me alive (or non-life, according to myself). So, what really matters to the will of a malt in Italy? And as our country is secular? As time passes, the more I am convinced that the answers to both questions is "very little". In my opinion, today Eluana is dead for the third time, and I have lost hope of having a serious law and democratic about these important issues.

Monday, March 23, 2009

Pediatrician Trillium

A friend is a treasure. But a friend found .. - Part II:)

Remember that on Friday I spoke of friendship, its value, and I mentioned to a dear friend that I had lost sight of? Well, before continuing, I would like to update you: there Ribecco us after so many years thanks to a well-known social network in vogue these days, and we finally resentful voice after all this time. Voice, voice, and I stress, because I think something very important. All means of communication are valid, the important thing, of course, is to keep in touch, however, it is useless to deny that the good old phone still gives something more than the PC keyboard, and it is normal to be this: of course they can meet in person would be even better, but try to imagine this situation. Close your eyes for a moment, and focus your attention on a person you care about, or to which you have very much wanted and to which you are bound states for a time, concentrate the mind on her, and try to feel what I felt I: Assume that for various vicissitudes of life (it happens, how many times? ^ ^), one day you have lost all contact with this person , and boom! Is suddenly released from your life without even time to say "Well." Just imagine, how would you feel? Suddenly you do not know anything about her, is alive, if he is okay, what's going through, that experience is going through: the years pass inexorable and nothing happens: just feel the void of absence, you know what is out there, somewhere In this world, but do not know where it is like an angel away, it could be done anywhere, even near you, but you can no longer see her, you are unable to grasp it. In the meantime, been a long time, too. At that point you do not know anything: it might also have become a completely different person: you know and remember all my life who was the person you left behind, you feel the desire to meet again, but at the same time, fear that the finding may be because you know you could find a completely different person from what we know. I do not think you would feel at all comfortable in this situation, is not it? Besides, maybe the guilt will torment you think, it's also my fault, somehow, if we do not see you, I would potuto e avrei dovuto fare di più per non perderci di vista. E questi sentimenti non migliorano le cose. Io mi sono sentita così: mi sono detta, ma in fondo io non so più niente, ho il ricordo di lei vivo come fosse ieri, ma lei nel frattempo è cresciuta, come lo sono io; ho lasciato una ragazzina e oggi ritroverei una donna. La stessa cosa è valsa per la mia amica, certamente: tanti anni fa lasciò un'amica bimba e oggi la ritrova donna, e pure mamma! Bel colpo, eh?

Nelle mie divagazioni mi viene in mente che il buon Antonello Venditti soleva cantare:

" Certi amori non finiscono
fanno dei giri immensi e poi ritornano...
"

What does it matter, you ask, this song is about love, not friendship, and oh yes, it is true, but for me and my friend is exactly what happened, it is not funny? Our friendship seemed to be lost, seemed to end somewhere, has done an incredible tour (also geographically) and then tea! For an incredible breath, here again here again!

is no longer a child, my friend, is a woman, now it is grown, it has made his life, as I have I created my own, and in a sense is now a different person, but while it was nice to discover that it is still the same, and the affection is still that of the time, despite everything. We grew up separately, from that moment on, and this will always regret, you will probably not fill a long 18 years, but it's nice to know that our friendship is not dead: it is different today, but there ' is, and she is always there, the house has changed his residence but not his soul. And this idea is enough for me.

And by the way, began last spring, temperatures are rising, and tonight, for the first time, my puppy turned back alone!

I leave you with a song I love forever, and I want to dedicate to my newfound friend, the song is taken from You Tube , and is the classic " Moon River", taken from one of my favorite movies of all time, " Breakfast at Tiffany's."

Good night and good life to all of you.




Pediatrician Trillium

A friend is a treasure. But a friend found .. - Part II:)

Remember that on Friday I spoke of friendship, its value, and I mentioned to a dear friend that I had lost sight of? Well, before continuing, I would like to update you: there Ribecco us after so many years thanks to a well-known social network in vogue these days, and we finally resentful voice after all this time. Voice, voice, and I stress, because I think something very important. All means of communication are valid, the important thing, of course, is to keep in touch, however, it is useless to deny that the good old phone still gives something more than the PC keyboard, and it is normal to be this: of course they can meet in person would be even better, but try to imagine this situation. Close your eyes for a moment, and focus your attention on a person you care about, or to which you have very much wanted and to which you are bound states for a time, concentrate the mind on her, and try to feel what I felt I: Assume that for various vicissitudes of life (it happens, how many times? ^ ^), one day you have lost all contact with this person , and boom! Is suddenly released from your life without even time to say "Well." Just imagine, how would you feel? Suddenly you do not know anything about her, is alive, if he is okay, what's going through, that experience is going through: the years pass inexorable and nothing happens: just feel the void of absence, you know what is out there, somewhere In this world, but do not know where it is like an angel away, it could be done anywhere, even near you, but you can no longer see her, you are unable to grasp it. In the meantime, been a long time, too. At that point you do not know anything: it might also have become a completely different person: you know and remember all my life who was the person you left behind, you feel the desire to meet again, but at the same time, fear that the finding may be because you know you could find a completely different person from what we know. I do not think you would feel at all comfortable in this situation, is not it? Besides, maybe the guilt will torment you think, it's also my fault, somehow, if we do not see you, I would potuto e avrei dovuto fare di più per non perderci di vista. E questi sentimenti non migliorano le cose. Io mi sono sentita così: mi sono detta, ma in fondo io non so più niente, ho il ricordo di lei vivo come fosse ieri, ma lei nel frattempo è cresciuta, come lo sono io; ho lasciato una ragazzina e oggi ritroverei una donna. La stessa cosa è valsa per la mia amica, certamente: tanti anni fa lasciò un'amica bimba e oggi la ritrova donna, e pure mamma! Bel colpo, eh?

Nelle mie divagazioni mi viene in mente che il buon Antonello Venditti soleva cantare:

" Certi amori non finiscono
fanno dei giri immensi e poi ritornano...
"

What does it matter, you ask, this song is about love, not friendship, and oh yes, it is true, but for me and my friend is exactly what happened, it is not funny? Our friendship seemed to be lost, seemed to end somewhere, has done an incredible tour (also geographically) and then tea! For an incredible breath, here again here again!

is no longer a child, my friend, is a woman, now it is grown, it has made his life, as I have I created my own, and in a sense is now a different person, but while it was nice to discover that it is still the same, and the affection is still that of the time, despite everything. We grew up separately, from that moment on, and this will always regret, you will probably not fill a long 18 years, but it's nice to know that our friendship is not dead: it is different today, but there ' is, and she is always there, the house has changed his residence but not his soul. And this idea is enough for me.

And by the way, began last spring, temperatures are rising, and tonight, for the first time, my puppy turned back alone!

I leave you with a song I love forever, and I want to dedicate to my newfound friend, the song is taken from You Tube , and is the classic " Moon River", taken from one of my favorite movies of all time, " Breakfast at Tiffany's."

Good night and good life to all of you.




Friday, March 20, 2009

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A friend is a treasure. But a friend found ..


An ancient proverb quotes, very wisely: "He who finds a friend finds a treasure" true. Especially nowadays, let's be honest: in this crazy world go away as fast as the wind, where there is everything and more, where there are many beautiful things, but just as bad, because it is difficult to find a true friend? And how difficult it is also store it?

is paradoxical, in the era Internet, phone, email, and mobile phones, yet is still easy to lose sight at times, but sincerely wanting good. You know, I've met a lot of people are, in many areas: from school to jobs, and yet I have few friends than other people. But as they say, I learned to carefully choose my friends, and maintain relationships only with people I care really. I have a small circle, but selected ^ ^ .. But I have always been friendly and chattering since kindergarten. And my best friends go back to your childhood. Yet, one of them, for various vicissitudes of life, I lost it view for several years, unless found by accident, thanks to this incredible tool that clears the distances in a click. Now life is giving us a new opportunity to stay in touch, which I hope to do porter, so I will give you some advice: Come around to your friends and do not loose sight of!

dear friend, if passed through here: I dedicate this message to you. :)

Best Cruising Places New Jersey

A friend is a treasure. But a friend found ..


An ancient proverb quotes, very wisely: "He who finds a friend finds a treasure" true. Especially nowadays, let's be honest: in this crazy world go away as fast as the wind, where there is everything and more, where there are many beautiful things, but just as bad, because it is difficult to find a true friend? And how difficult it is also store it?

is paradoxical, in the era Internet, phone, email, and mobile phones, yet is still easy to lose sight at times, but sincerely wanting good. You know, I've met a lot of people are, in many areas: from school to jobs, and yet I have few friends than other people. But as they say, I learned to carefully choose my friends, and maintain relationships only with people I care really. I have a small circle, but selected ^ ^ .. But I have always been friendly and chattering since kindergarten. And my best friends go back to your childhood. Yet, one of them, for various vicissitudes of life, I lost it view for several years, unless found by accident, thanks to this incredible tool that clears the distances in a click. Now life is giving us a new opportunity to stay in touch, which I hope to do porter, so I will give you some advice: Come around to your friends and do not loose sight of!

dear friend, if passed through here: I dedicate this message to you. :)

Thursday, March 19, 2009

Stopping Stomach Acid Burning In Throat

Tomorrow is another day .. Cul




Well, boys, "as the legendary Scarlett O'Hara at the end of Gone with the Wind , tomorrow is another day. Today was a bad day: between diaper, a rash of ass, screaming, tears, cracks pc unforeseen, ordinary and extraordinary cleaning, I arrived in the evening that I yawned more of my son. Yet, when I am so tired, I have a method of my own to feel better fast: I lie down on the Latvian with my baby, and we play together, look at him in his sweet little eyes, I tickle him under the arms, and he laughs, laugh, laugh like crazy. Ride with her dainty pink and laughing eyes. And I do the cuddling with him now I feel reborn. Yeah, maybe I say something obvious, and maybe who is a parent than to know me well what I mean. These adorable frugoletti are able in minutes to restore the good humor and energy. As Julie Andrews sang in "The Sound of Music "


"I think the things I love most
and return to the serene to me .."


I would still add many other things, but ... Yawn! Goodnight everyone! :) ^ ^

Stopping Stomach Acid Burning In Throat

Tomorrow is another day .. Cul




Well, boys, "as the legendary Scarlett O'Hara at the end of Gone with the Wind , tomorrow is another day. Today was a bad day: between diaper, a rash of ass, screaming, tears, cracks pc unforeseen, ordinary and extraordinary cleaning, I arrived in the evening that I yawned more of my son. Yet, when I am so tired, I have a method of my own to feel better fast: I lie down on the Latvian with my baby, and we play together, look at him in his sweet little eyes, I tickle him under the arms, and he laughs, laugh, laugh like crazy. Ride with her dainty pink and laughing eyes. And I do the cuddling with him now I feel reborn. Yeah, maybe I say something obvious, and maybe who is a parent than to know me well what I mean. These adorable frugoletti are able in minutes to restore the good humor and energy. As Julie Andrews sang in "The Sound of Music "


"I think the things I love most
and return to the serene to me .."


I would still add many other things, but ... Yawn! Goodnight everyone! :) ^ ^

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Speeches Given For Church Anniversary

/ Kultura on TV ...

I just twenty minutes tonight before giving baby food to my son, so I take this opportunity to talk a little bit of 'culture' (or should I say "kul") or assumed that turns in our national television channels. Many say to me, "yeah, but how do you to spend so much time on the Internet? I when I checked the mail, I close. What else I have to do with ADSL? "Of course I say that is true, I spend a lot of time because we are fond of this communication tool, but not limited to: Should I turn on the TV to see what? In Rai now, in spite of public service and the fee, it is all a "copy-paste" along the lines of Mediaset programs, to make matters worse, there are scialbette ragazzuole Del Noce, except that everyone seems to know how to make good television (at this point my mom smile remembering the old television '50s of his youth eheh), and where everything seems fake and artificial, like that horrible imitation of the "Forum" that goes on RAI 1 in the morning .. Mediaset, oh well .. and of course culture is not traditionally home to the networks of the Alfa, but it is also a TV, which means that we can stand. The fact remains that are months and months and months now that I swear to you, find a program that interests me and worth it has become increasingly difficult: you save the usual pretty decent transmissions Piero Angela and child (eg the more beautiful "Ulysses" ) the usual Geo & Geo, and really very little else. For the rest, we must put up with "Big Brother", "The Mole", "The Farm" (miiiiiiiii maròòòòò and how we could do without the Farm ??????????), this stuff here, and same faces, sempre le solite, che non cambiano mai. Oggi pomeriggio mentre davo la merenda a mio figlio, per disgrazia era rimasta sintonizzata la tv su "Pomeriggio Cinque", e che cosa ti vedo?????????????? Apriti sesamo! Antonio Zechila!!! (Madonna manco fosse un attore da statuetta!) che spiegava alla D'Urso la sua sulla famosa sceneggiata con Pappalardo ('na roba che ci facciamo prendere per i fondelli da mezza Europa per queste belle scene..); ma non è finita qui: come se non bastasse, la buona Barbara ha pensato bene che fosse molto interessante fare un collegamentino con la casa della mammà del buon "mutanda" (alias Zechila).. insomma che me sono dovuta sentì!! La mammina dire in tv che il suo manzo figliolo dongiovanni non è un boyfriend come tutti pensano..

Mamma mia, ragazzi, ma c'è veramente chi vuol vedere questa roba alla tv? Che pietà.. ma dove se ne sta andando la cultura? Tornerà mai un pò di televisione di buona qualità?

Ai posteri, l'ardua sentenza. Grazie per l'attenzione, e alla prossima. :) ^^

Speeches Given For Church Anniversary

/ Kultura on TV ...

I just twenty minutes tonight before giving baby food to my son, so I take this opportunity to talk a little bit of 'culture' (or should I say "kul") or assumed that turns in our national television channels. Many say to me, "yeah, but how do you to spend so much time on the Internet? I when I checked the mail, I close. What else I have to do with ADSL? "Of course I say that is true, I spend a lot of time because we are fond of this communication tool, but not limited to: Should I turn on the TV to see what? In Rai now, in spite of public service and the fee, it is all a "copy-paste" along the lines of Mediaset programs, to make matters worse, there are scialbette ragazzuole Del Noce, except that everyone seems to know how to make good television (at this point my mom smile remembering the old television '50s of his youth eheh), and where everything seems fake and artificial, like that horrible imitation of the "Forum" that goes on RAI 1 in the morning .. Mediaset, oh well .. and of course culture is not traditionally home to the networks of the Alfa, but it is also a TV, which means that we can stand. The fact remains that are months and months and months now that I swear to you, find a program that interests me and worth it has become increasingly difficult: you save the usual pretty decent transmissions Piero Angela and child (eg the more beautiful "Ulysses" ) the usual Geo & Geo, and really very little else. For the rest, we must put up with "Big Brother", "The Mole", "The Farm" (miiiiiiiii maròòòòò and how we could do without the Farm ??????????), this stuff here, and same faces, sempre le solite, che non cambiano mai. Oggi pomeriggio mentre davo la merenda a mio figlio, per disgrazia era rimasta sintonizzata la tv su "Pomeriggio Cinque", e che cosa ti vedo?????????????? Apriti sesamo! Antonio Zechila!!! (Madonna manco fosse un attore da statuetta!) che spiegava alla D'Urso la sua sulla famosa sceneggiata con Pappalardo ('na roba che ci facciamo prendere per i fondelli da mezza Europa per queste belle scene..); ma non è finita qui: come se non bastasse, la buona Barbara ha pensato bene che fosse molto interessante fare un collegamentino con la casa della mammà del buon "mutanda" (alias Zechila).. insomma che me sono dovuta sentì!! La mammina dire in tv che il suo manzo figliolo dongiovanni non è un boyfriend come tutti pensano..

Mamma mia, ragazzi, ma c'è veramente chi vuol vedere questa roba alla tv? Che pietà.. ma dove se ne sta andando la cultura? Tornerà mai un pò di televisione di buona qualità?

Ai posteri, l'ardua sentenza. Grazie per l'attenzione, e alla prossima. :) ^^

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Sputh Park Iphone Streaming

was your child ..

L'altra settimana questo blog non l'avevo ancora creato, quindi non potevo ancora pubblicare questo post, ma lo faccio adesso.

Ho seguito un caso alla nota trasmissione "Forum"  che mi ha molto colpito, e di cui vorrei annotare qui qualche riflessione, anche se a freddo. Spiego intanto di cosa it was:
a young man, for many vicissitudes, had been away from her family of origin, and was made a life apart from their parents, this is right, you say, independence, etc. etc.. Ok, true, but what happened next took a turn that his family did not expect, namely, a gay son that his son had been able to marry in Spain (a country where gay marriage is allowed by law ). This, of course, sparked uproar in the family, especially
because at some point this young man died, leaving a husband and a house owned by the latter in Milan. The point of all is that parents have not accepted the matter, saying they were shocked because the child would have to share with them his "diversity" without putting a fait accompli, and, worse, dead.

What happened then? The loving suocerina you did? It has well thought out, with the excuse of not affecting the public sensibility, to close the family chapel in which the child was buried, and to prevent access to the generator. Not satisfied, immediately claimed to repossess all the material goods of his son.

From here, my thoughts on the matter. Do you not consider that if the child had been left without parents trusting that he was gay and had married her partner, un motivo ci sarà stato? Io credo se mio figlio, un domani, se io passassi a rimbombargli la testa ogni giorno che la moto è pericolosa, molto probabilmente, se dovesse avere questa passione, la prima cosa che farà quando avrà dei soldini da parte, sarà quella di comprarsene una senza venirmelo  a dire. La stesa cosa è successa a questo ragazzo: ben sapendo le idee perbeniste e cattoliche dei genitori, sapendo che secondo i suoi genitori, avere un figlio gay sarebbe praticamente stata una disgrazia (ricordate   le dichiarazioni di tempo fa di Albano sui figli gay ?) giustamente, secondo me, non se l'è sentita di andarglielo a raccontare. La cosa brutta di questa storia è che questi genitori non solo discriminano una persona innocente per il suo orientamento sessuale, ma peggio ancora, gli volevano negare il sacrosanto diritto di piangere un suo caro e di lasciargli un fiore al cimitero. Neanche una sua foto voleva lasciargli la suocera! Come se il figlio fosse stato una sua proprietà!

Se questa signora fosse qui, le farei presente senza peli sulla lingua che secondo me ha mancato di rispetto alla memoria di suo figlio, e lo ha ucciso due volte, comportandosi così. Signora cara, un figlio si ama per quello che è ! Non dia la colpa alla società, dei disagi che affrontano ogni giorno le persone omosessuali, perché la "società" è composta da tutti noi messi insieme, me e Lei compresa. Un figlio è un dono, e va amato e appoggiato sempre e comunque. Se nostro figlio ha un problema così grave, se si sente discrimanato dagli altri, come potrà sentirsi se vedrà che i primi a discriminarlo sono i suoi genitori?

Queste le mie riflessioni, in breve, dal lato morale della storia. A chi fosse interessato, può rivedere la sentenza e sapere come è andata a finire.

Sputh Park Iphone Streaming

was your child ..

L'altra settimana questo blog non l'avevo ancora creato, quindi non potevo ancora pubblicare questo post, ma lo faccio adesso.

Ho seguito un caso alla nota trasmissione "Forum"  che mi ha molto colpito, e di cui vorrei annotare qui qualche riflessione, anche se a freddo. Spiego intanto di cosa it was:
a young man, for many vicissitudes, had been away from her family of origin, and was made a life apart from their parents, this is right, you say, independence, etc. etc.. Ok, true, but what happened next took a turn that his family did not expect, namely, a gay son that his son had been able to marry in Spain (a country where gay marriage is allowed by law ). This, of course, sparked uproar in the family, especially
because at some point this young man died, leaving a husband and a house owned by the latter in Milan. The point of all is that parents have not accepted the matter, saying they were shocked because the child would have to share with them his "diversity" without putting a fait accompli, and, worse, dead.

What happened then? The loving suocerina you did? It has well thought out, with the excuse of not affecting the public sensibility, to close the family chapel in which the child was buried, and to prevent access to the generator. Not satisfied, immediately claimed to repossess all the material goods of his son.

From here, my thoughts on the matter. Do you not consider that if the child had been left without parents trusting that he was gay and had married her partner, un motivo ci sarà stato? Io credo se mio figlio, un domani, se io passassi a rimbombargli la testa ogni giorno che la moto è pericolosa, molto probabilmente, se dovesse avere questa passione, la prima cosa che farà quando avrà dei soldini da parte, sarà quella di comprarsene una senza venirmelo  a dire. La stesa cosa è successa a questo ragazzo: ben sapendo le idee perbeniste e cattoliche dei genitori, sapendo che secondo i suoi genitori, avere un figlio gay sarebbe praticamente stata una disgrazia (ricordate   le dichiarazioni di tempo fa di Albano sui figli gay ?) giustamente, secondo me, non se l'è sentita di andarglielo a raccontare. La cosa brutta di questa storia è che questi genitori non solo discriminano una persona innocente per il suo orientamento sessuale, ma peggio ancora, gli volevano negare il sacrosanto diritto di piangere un suo caro e di lasciargli un fiore al cimitero. Neanche una sua foto voleva lasciargli la suocera! Come se il figlio fosse stato una sua proprietà!

Se questa signora fosse qui, le farei presente senza peli sulla lingua che secondo me ha mancato di rispetto alla memoria di suo figlio, e lo ha ucciso due volte, comportandosi così. Signora cara, un figlio si ama per quello che è ! Non dia la colpa alla società, dei disagi che affrontano ogni giorno le persone omosessuali, perché la "società" è composta da tutti noi messi insieme, me e Lei compresa. Un figlio è un dono, e va amato e appoggiato sempre e comunque. Se nostro figlio ha un problema così grave, se si sente discrimanato dagli altri, come potrà sentirsi se vedrà che i primi a discriminarlo sono i suoi genitori?

Queste le mie riflessioni, in breve, dal lato morale della storia. A chi fosse interessato, può rivedere la sentenza e sapere come è andata a finire.

Sunday, March 15, 2009

Depressed During Period

How it all began, e.. my first poem for my baby

Prima di andarmene a ninna (eh si, per una mammina come me che deve saltar su presto al pianto di risveglio del suo cucciolino, è già decisamente tardi..), vorrei lasciarvi due righe sulla mia presenza nel web. Qualcuno dalla foto mi avrà riconosciuta; il mio nick usual on the web is "Vale76" (basically my name and my birth year) and navigate through the web a few years ago. I learned to discover this world slowly, I confess that at first was surfing with a 56k connection scassatissima demoralizing arcilenta and the then "Free" (today Infostrada - Wind) to not remember how many pounds per minute .. Oh well, long story short (I have a habit of dwell and be verbose at times .. ahem ..), it was back in 2003 and for me, and as a leisure Unigo tecnlogico was already painful then normal and satellite television, the Internet has been discovered something great and at the same time very confusing, because in a moment, though not a genius in the field, grabbed the huge potential of this instrument, feeling, however, disoriented. Slowly, of course, I began to unravel, and my precious friend taught me a lot of little things (from how to make a decent search on Google hehe) I have been essential over the years. Over time, the Web has become un'impensata passion for me, I had finally opened up a world without limits! For me, then, I loved foreign languages, can, with a click to visit a foreign country through the sites, it was a wonderful thing, as well as a good resource to keep all modern train my language skills. I loved so much this tool, since 2005 I decided to switch sides: not just a spectator, but also "manufacturing", in a sense. What do I mean? That a few years I give my little contribution to the Net "by" my little piece of my Web site was born Bee Author (currently in its 4 th restyling), which contains all my passion for fairy tales, to tales, stories, and poems. I also had several experiences with the forums for my site (not all go happily), and since December we have that too, a whole new forumino for those who also loves to write poems and share them with others Forum Paroledautore.net .

Then last August 21, 2008, the most important day and happy my life .. I became a mom .. Obviously, at the beginning, the rhythms were dizzying to say the least (and grandparents blessed! Eheh), both for me and my partner, obviously a mother it is much more, so for a few months I stumbled twisted between milk, boobs (mine, of course, eh ..), pacifiers, powdered milk and diapers, poo, plin plin, crying, colic, screaming, and if you prefer. Result, as can easily imagine: the time for my passions almost zero. But then slowly we framed, my boy started to get used to life outside the belly and new rhythms, and slowly went back to my activities on the Internet (although with less time than once, of course. ..) And very recently, have also been able to put in writing some verses dedicated to Nicholas, my son, and now here I report:

My son

What I did in the good life
everything is there,
in those seventy centimeters of Love.
To you, my delicate little flower,
I dedicated my humble life.
You, my magnificent work,
you, my most precious gem,
have made my life wonderful.
I, I looked at myself,
to pay anything,
I found in you, my soul,
the path that had been lost.
I look at you and I lit up of vast,
if I try to love,
find him in your eyes soft and sweet, delicious
in your cries in your dainty pink. Every day
crossing your eyes, I
disperses in your bright brown eyes, and I realize
, my puppy golden
you're the most wonderful gift that Heaven has made me.

In you, O my soul immense
you, my infinite joy,
retrace my past, you
and finally I found my purpose.


That said, I run to bed, good night!

Depressed During Period

How it all began, e.. my first poem for my baby

Prima di andarmene a ninna (eh si, per una mammina come me che deve saltar su presto al pianto di risveglio del suo cucciolino, è già decisamente tardi..), vorrei lasciarvi due righe sulla mia presenza nel web. Qualcuno dalla foto mi avrà riconosciuta; il mio nick usual on the web is "Vale76" (basically my name and my birth year) and navigate through the web a few years ago. I learned to discover this world slowly, I confess that at first was surfing with a 56k connection scassatissima demoralizing arcilenta and the then "Free" (today Infostrada - Wind) to not remember how many pounds per minute .. Oh well, long story short (I have a habit of dwell and be verbose at times .. ahem ..), it was back in 2003 and for me, and as a leisure Unigo tecnlogico was already painful then normal and satellite television, the Internet has been discovered something great and at the same time very confusing, because in a moment, though not a genius in the field, grabbed the huge potential of this instrument, feeling, however, disoriented. Slowly, of course, I began to unravel, and my precious friend taught me a lot of little things (from how to make a decent search on Google hehe) I have been essential over the years. Over time, the Web has become un'impensata passion for me, I had finally opened up a world without limits! For me, then, I loved foreign languages, can, with a click to visit a foreign country through the sites, it was a wonderful thing, as well as a good resource to keep all modern train my language skills. I loved so much this tool, since 2005 I decided to switch sides: not just a spectator, but also "manufacturing", in a sense. What do I mean? That a few years I give my little contribution to the Net "by" my little piece of my Web site was born Bee Author (currently in its 4 th restyling), which contains all my passion for fairy tales, to tales, stories, and poems. I also had several experiences with the forums for my site (not all go happily), and since December we have that too, a whole new forumino for those who also loves to write poems and share them with others Forum Paroledautore.net .

Then last August 21, 2008, the most important day and happy my life .. I became a mom .. Obviously, at the beginning, the rhythms were dizzying to say the least (and grandparents blessed! Eheh), both for me and my partner, obviously a mother it is much more, so for a few months I stumbled twisted between milk, boobs (mine, of course, eh ..), pacifiers, powdered milk and diapers, poo, plin plin, crying, colic, screaming, and if you prefer. Result, as can easily imagine: the time for my passions almost zero. But then slowly we framed, my boy started to get used to life outside the belly and new rhythms, and slowly went back to my activities on the Internet (although with less time than once, of course. ..) And very recently, have also been able to put in writing some verses dedicated to Nicholas, my son, and now here I report:

My son

What I did in the good life
everything is there,
in those seventy centimeters of Love.
To you, my delicate little flower,
I dedicated my humble life.
You, my magnificent work,
you, my most precious gem,
have made my life wonderful.
I, I looked at myself,
to pay anything,
I found in you, my soul,
the path that had been lost.
I look at you and I lit up of vast,
if I try to love,
find him in your eyes soft and sweet, delicious
in your cries in your dainty pink. Every day
crossing your eyes, I
disperses in your bright brown eyes, and I realize
, my puppy golden
you're the most wonderful gift that Heaven has made me.

In you, O my soul immense
you, my infinite joy,
retrace my past, you
and finally I found my purpose.


That said, I run to bed, good night!

Is Going Poop A Sign Of Pregnancy



wooow, here I am! Just two hours ago, I was assuming the birth of my mental laboratory, and now I'm already here to launch my first message in my blog! Well, unbelievable! These technologies are quite extraordinary (not that they have not already accustomed, actually), but stupafecente see once again how easy it is nowadays, with a click and a simple Internet connection, to communicate with the world!

Well, but who is this here? What do you want, and where it is checked, you say .. Hehe, you're right. In fact you do not know anything about me, I'm basically a perfect stranger to you, the only things that you know, is that maybe you were accidentally thrown into this place you've never seen, where reigns the large face of this that you have never seen in your life. Well, actually something that I must also tell it to you, just to know a minimum. We must say that I consider myself a sociable person, I like to make friends and talk about everything, but at the same time is also a private person (shy, even, at times .. - emoticon shy -). So now I'll tell you what you can expect to find in my diary ...

details and details of intimate and private facts ..
Things that concern me, as a person: my most intimate sphere and secret ..
Details and information about me and my family ..
gory stories about my past and maybe some revelation about any skeletons in the closet ..

? The answer is

............................................. .....

......................................

.......................................

.......................................

EVEN FOR SOGNOOOOOOOOOOOOO

SCORDATEVELOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!! ghghg LOL! :-) ^ ^

Now you say that is a half-mad, from which a turn off! Well, no, do not worry, I'm not a deranged ready to eat and jump on ihihi

I am a girl (oh my God, girl .. a woman, now .. sigh sob ..) who decided suddenly and abruptly, according to an internal impetus to open a virtual diary to share his thoughts and reflections on the world with others. Here you can read (unless you are interested in) what I think, for example, a given political fact of a story that I have shaken or hit, or even, I might decide to share with you goie cognitive progress of my child, and who knows what else , we'll see. But for sure, and he should be in clear, do not put my private life in the streets, that's for sure! So do not look here for things that you will never find me hehe!

As they say, clear agreements, and long friendship! :-)

In the meantime, if you like, you know me better by reading about me and my tastes, from my profile.

Thank you all for your attention and come back.

Stay tuned! :)

Is Going Poop A Sign Of Pregnancy



wooow, here I am! Just two hours ago, I was assuming the birth of my mental laboratory, and now I'm already here to launch my first message in my blog! Well, unbelievable! These technologies are quite extraordinary (not that they have not already accustomed, actually), but stupafecente see once again how easy it is nowadays, with a click and a simple Internet connection, to communicate with the world!

Well, but who is this here? What do you want, and where it is checked, you say .. Hehe, you're right. In fact you do not know anything about me, I'm basically a perfect stranger to you, the only things that you know, is that maybe you were accidentally thrown into this place you've never seen, where reigns the large face of this that you have never seen in your life. Well, actually something that I must also tell it to you, just to know a minimum. We must say that I consider myself a sociable person, I like to make friends and talk about everything, but at the same time is also a private person (shy, even, at times .. - emoticon shy -). So now I'll tell you what you can expect to find in my diary ...

details and details of intimate and private facts ..
Things that concern me, as a person: my most intimate sphere and secret ..
Details and information about me and my family ..
gory stories about my past and maybe some revelation about any skeletons in the closet ..

? The answer is

............................................. .....

......................................

.......................................

.......................................

EVEN FOR SOGNOOOOOOOOOOOOO

SCORDATEVELOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!! ghghg LOL! :-) ^ ^

Now you say that is a half-mad, from which a turn off! Well, no, do not worry, I'm not a deranged ready to eat and jump on ihihi

I am a girl (oh my God, girl .. a woman, now .. sigh sob ..) who decided suddenly and abruptly, according to an internal impetus to open a virtual diary to share his thoughts and reflections on the world with others. Here you can read (unless you are interested in) what I think, for example, a given political fact of a story that I have shaken or hit, or even, I might decide to share with you goie cognitive progress of my child, and who knows what else , we'll see. But for sure, and he should be in clear, do not put my private life in the streets, that's for sure! So do not look here for things that you will never find me hehe!

As they say, clear agreements, and long friendship! :-)

In the meantime, if you like, you know me better by reading about me and my tastes, from my profile.

Thank you all for your attention and come back.

Stay tuned! :)